Get rid of failure

Ertelediğimizde forward we need to do, is gömüyoruz dreams Dropping down into inertia. Or Clam'ın Victor said: "Inertia opportunities killer."

I liked as well, despite that we are mortal, remember that sometimes. Only in this way, is precisely the time we should take action to realize our dreams, "this is the moment that" feel. Why are you constantly need to do to realize our dreams will not come as a erteliyorsunuz even a vague time. What stops you? Life is constantly emphasizing short, why not give time to let go of inertia as a thief stealing.

One of the reasons life is to look at a faulty perspective and inertia. For example, "business" Consider the word. Business deyince negative feelings many of us caught. In fact, most of us work, "an award given by God," not "punish the people of God as" I'm sure he saw. Human nature "painful" thing escapes. Therefore, we can say this is human nature to escape from work.

Picasso taraftarlarındansanız escape from work, or Mozart Michelangelo'yu imagine. When they get up in the morning do you think they "go to work," they said to? Hereinafter referred to as a work of art that they were doing and were not sure. You consider yourself as an artist, regardless of your job and work you produce "masterpiece" try to look through the eyes.

How to carry out a car petrol is required, it is necessary for success in the determination and perseverance. Without resolute attitude of perseverance and success, even if the car engine will not run on the road.

The concept of inertia is the opposite of tenacity and determination. Perseverance means never stick to it. Inertia is başlayamamaktır never. Another example of the inertia bitirmemek you start work.

Often hear people saying in inertia: "I am a perfectionist. Conditions before starting work, I should be fit for my work. Distraction should not be anything, should not be too much noise, if possible, playing phones, the phone rang attention dissipates. Of course, physically I feel good about myself, my head aches so how can I work? "These people are in an inertial başlayamayanlardır never work.

There are also job they start a diploma, but they also began to leave the job half perfectionism always covered sheath is always ready to excuse. Say: "I would like everything to be perfect and complete. No, never, satisfied work. The "i" in the form of the letters points to be a perfect spot, all the "t" must be identical. Or that job is not finished. I am my own worst eleştirmeniyim Forgive me, I like that. I'm a perfectionist, do not stop work. But I can not change that ... "

Do you see what is going on here? "Wrong" behavior, "virtuous" as showing a davranışmış. Perfectionist "is too high for their standards of living in this world," he says. This behavior can give the name of the error-virtue syndrome is actually a defense shield to cover their weaknesses. An attempt to find fake excuses. Of course, this behavior does not explain the real reasons for the shape of inertia. Much deeper, because the real causes of inertia are reserved.

On the basis of inertia "fear of failure" lies. And you were paralyzed with fear curtails Progress. What is the difference between başlayamamak rhapsodize start off with no job? In fact, no difference. In either case, a point will remain stuck. In both cases, can not have any location. You need to do whatever task or job, düşmüşsünüzdür been defeated in the face.

If the real reason for this behavior is wrong you have created your visions for the future. Başaramadığınızda this job to think about what will happen, who keep you in finishing the job ... So inertia leads to behavior. Güleceklerinden Maybe you are afraid of the people in the face of Failure, fear, or perhaps because of fear that it will receive criticisms kaldıramayacağınızı thinker, tamamlayamadığınızda work as expected, may be penalized idea.

In short, you create for the future "negative visions" Progress detain you, you will fit. This is a tool that many people's mind of its own making.

So what should we do to overcome the inertia of us who keep Progress? We are now the inertia of a technique to convert the show mache. Inertia and passivity, productivity and commitment to the basic principle is to convert.

Principle of Fragment

Nature of the work trying to complete this process does not change the operation. Maybe you would write a book, would you like to climb a mountain, or going home whitewash. Whatever you want to accomplish something, the key to success, you can spend to do the job into smaller pieces. Every little piece of work, you can complete with ease, you can handle, should be a part of. How much work is currently part of a complete part of the focus on the need to finish that much. More ilerisinin up thinking. Imagine a way to bring the future of giving up the negative, a positive outlook for the full Enhance the current moment. This technique is one of the most important technical inertia yenmedeki. Now you explain a little more with an example:

Let's say you wanted to write a 400-page novel. If you're like the majority, that it might consider an impossible task to complete. But now to ask a different question than you suppose; this time, I would say: "Every Time 1.5 page for a year I would like you to write text" Would you consider what you can? The idea seems to be impossible to write 400-page book, this new offer came a little easier to you? Must have at least does not seem impossible to do.

We do here "to take apart the 400-page book was to do the writing. So what is easier to work, maybe yes ... But believe me, I still would like to see some of you afraid of the eye. Why? Because here, "one year" spoke of a lifelong study, said the Time 1.5 type pages. Section 1.5 on page easy to write. But I told you that a year-round eye scares many people. People who want to pursue the same thing continuously for a year, people they tend to develop forward-looking and a negative mood. What should we do so. Allocate some more pieces Let's work:

This time, you, "today" 1.5 page I want you to write text. Wanting it for a year, a month, I am not saying for a week. "Today, 1.5 pages summer writing" I do not want you to look beyond. Many people will accept it easily. Even the 400-page book, even those who think that it is impossible for them to write.

When these people ask the same thing again tomorrow and I will say to them "to look at yesterday, tomorrow, the actual writing of this page was 1.5 days, and must do today is to write." Can you think?

The technique, as well as the work to be done in time to cut the pieces. Time periods of work time required for a significant stake in a day. You are devoted itself to pieces in the work to be done at the same time. Believe me you apply this technique for a year, eventually you all will have a 400-page book!

If you encounter a task that frightens your eyes, is based on the current day, backwards and forwards without looking at the daily tasks we can fall if we do not work.

Remember, even the longest marathon "begins with a single step." Get up and take your first step right now.

Short stature and poor standing next to a young, tall and portly cousin returned, "if I were you, I, I'd be world heavyweight boxing champion," he said. Hearing this, turning to his cousin, gave the following answer: "I who keep you from being the world lightweight boxing champion?"

We are all young, such as paragraph, instead of doing the best we can our own terms, "If we had over others" have been times when we focus on what we will do. What makes us think so?

Imagine you want to accomplish a goal. This goal to read 3 books a month, stopping smoking, exam or university might earn a monthly report on activities. You know what to do in order to reach your destination. This is why you need to do also know what to do. And work can start where you want to also know how to do. What's lost in the doing, or if you are earning what you know. Think that what you want to do the job. But still not doing well. The first step in getting rid of a kind, you can not act. Vazgeçiyorsunuz or actions after the half-way.

Have you ever thought, what stops you?

We stopped the factor "inertia" is.

Inertia in physical science, "state of inertia", the terminology of personal development "to take action for the purpose" means. Although I've read dozens of personal development books, he explained in books uygulamayanların problem is that in inertia. Who dreams to be successful for many years, setting targets, making plans, but who has not appointed the first step in a kind of living if the problem is that the inertia.

"Inertia" where people can recognize? Persons who live in inertia often slow to act. Laziness, exhaustion, despair, sloth, scattered over the soil to act as dead, came to the door egg-shally, weariness, sevksizlik characteristic specifications. Frequent delays in performing their jobs, declare an excuse. Life looks reproachfully, reckless, reactive, pessimistic, critical and worried. Therefore, the joys of life and life is very low energies. Look at you when you call them, usually by lifting his eyebrows lifting their heads!

What are the most common examples of personal inertia in Turkey? In a survey of our participants, "of which you should not do but you do not need to do three things make or write?" He asked. The 10 Most answers were: not to learn foreign language, not reading books, avoidance of smoking, doing regular physical activity, family and children to devote enough time, not to measures of earthquake, excessive television watching, not to save or make wasted a lot of excess weight, feather, in his day, or Failure to comply with the annual plans.

Why do people fail to pass into action? Why live in inertia? The answer varies according to the people. However, the main reasons are: the absence of the target, the internal discipline (willpower), weakness, or nearsightedness is a short-term thinking, irritability and a sense of living in passive resistance, lack of motivation, negative corporate culture, to be conformist and hedonistic worldview, fear of failure , lack of standards and criteria perception, a sense of learned helplessness, the minimum qualifications required by the target, not to be lack of awareness of time use, lack of an objective performance evaluation system, the wrong interpretation of fatalism, having the culture of open communication, not suggestive, does not have the courage to face the harsh realities to ignore these types of data and so on.

Inertia is divided into two persons who live in:

1. Due to its poor internal discipline and motivation to make the action's text descriptions or task objectives can not pass the requirements.

2. Unable to prioritize workload of important jobs under extreme wrestling. Their problem is that poor personal organization systems.

The first group is lazy and flabby, the second group, but metotsuzdur diligent. Inertia is equal to the results of the two groups in terms of survival.

Why people get rid inertia? First, people are aware of their experiences in case of inertia. Second, people who are not themselves the cause of inertia is the tendency dışlarında search. The third reason is to overcome the inertia of the inertia gerekmesidir being freed.

Inertia formation takes place in two stages. The first stage, the surrounding loose sight of what you need to do or not to see the changes (blindness) The second stage sees what you need to do but do nothing, to ignore, hang around, and to postpone action geçmemektir.

Makes cancer dangerous inertia and gradual (progressive), as have many.

Shock to changes in individuals, organizations or communities may act by using reflexes. But gradually (stage) of the complete structure can not detect the changes. A typical example of this situation in the famous "water heated frog" experiment. A frog is thrown directly into hot water. Living the "shock change" the captain laid out the effect of jumping frogs. In the second experiment, this time kurbağamız put in a vessel containing water at room temperature. And the frog starts to heat up the water container is placed on a heater! Water is heated, the frog relax, complacency and inertia begins to fall. The water temperature "burning" the captain reached level jumping frog leg reflexes to get out of work, but now "working" sees. Getting people to influence the shape of inertia about the case.

Of life of people across the "downtime" is similar in many points with the kurbağanınki. Many people, either no action does not solve the problem or to no longer point to do something even begin to take action. Can be divided into 4 groups according to their people to take action:

1. And those who know (who managed professionally)

2. Those who do not know, but (inertia)

3. But who do not know who (Amateurs)

4. Sedentary and who do not know (who failed)

If the 1 If you want to take part in the group following "tips" can.

1. The difference in inertia is the first step in getting rid of inertia lived. Although we live in such a dense and widespread inertia • Contact the absence of inertia gives ataletlerimize persistence.

2. Prof. Dr. In the words of Ali Fuat Başgil'in "üşenmeyin, not delay, do not give up." If you want to fall into inertia, before you make plans to identify goals, then Look at the, postpone, abandon!

Abraham DEMİRCİ

Ugur Balikesir Dershanesi Coordinator

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